Today I have the first part of a guest blog by author, Brenda Perlin. Enjoy.
My tanning bed
nightmare started shortly after I met Bo. One afternoon, I received a phone
call from my dermatologist telling me that he had some very serious news to
share with me. This shocked me because it came from out of left field. He
proceeded to tell me that the small—no larger than a typical blemish—dark spot
on my butt was the worst kind of skin problem: a “melanoma” skin cancer.
As he explained
the details, I felt light headed, numb and definitely not present; it felt like
I was floating over my body.
He told me in no
uncertain terms that, “This is very serious.”
I felt bad for
him, and scared for me, because I could hear his voice trembling. This was not
an easy task for him. Wanting to make him feel better, I remained nonchalant
and pleasant. As the conversation continued, I further digested what he was
saying. The wires in my brain were slowly starting to connect. This was not a
small little inconvenience, it could be another life threatening turn of events.
This was all starting to sound extremely bad.
In February
2009, I noticed a small mark (like a freckle) on the very top of my butt. I had
not noticed it previously and had heard that if you found a new mole or growth
on your skin, you should have it checked by a doctor. Any new blemish or growth
could be a sign of something sinister.
Shortly
thereafter, I made a phone call to my primary doctor in Mission Viejo,
California. The next day, I received a call back from my doctor’s office
telling me that she would not refer me to a dermatologist without doing an
examination herself. At that point, I was not overly concerned that the new
freckle on my butt was anything life threatening, so I casually waited a few
months before scheduling an appointment in August 2009 with that doctor. I
rationalized to myself that I was probably being a hypochondriac, overreacting
to every magazine article about various diseases and afflictions, so I just put
this one out of my mind.
In August 2009,
I was in my doctor’s office and remembered to show her the new freckle/mole on
my butt. She took a quick look at it and said it was nothing to be worried
about. I was relieved to hear good news from a doctor for a change, so I put it
out of my mind. Basically, I crossed it off my list and planned on never
thinking about it again.
Fast forward
eight months later. While I was having some cosmetic procedures done at my
dermatologist’s office, I contemplated whether or not I should ask about the
same freckle on my butt. I felt guilty asking for this additional time.
Certainly, there were other patients in the waiting room and, after all, my
exam was completed, except for that freckle.
In my most
jovial voice, I asked the doctor if he thought this freckle was anything to be
concerned about. I thought he would brush it off as fast as my other doctor had
done. He took a good look at it and said that he didn’t think it was anything
to be concerned about, but added that suspicious growths should always be
biopsied, especially new growths. I liked his thoroughness and, maybe the
attention too, so I agreed.
He did a biopsy
and sent it to the lab for testing. I felt my worries were surely over. I was
being safe, and felt good about taking care of myself in this fashion. I felt
very mature. I never would have imagined that this small little mark would be
anything that could have the power to alter the rest of my life. It made me
start thinking about all the things that were important to me and all the
friends and loved ones I would miss if I were gone.
Stay tuned for the rest of this story. It is an interesting one.
Here are the links to find Brenda Perlin online.
Her wonderful books:
Shattered RealityHere are the links to find Brenda Perlin online.
Her wonderful books:
Burnt Promises
Youtube Book Trailers
Shattered Reality Brooklyn and Bo chronicles (Book One)
Burnt Promises Brooklyn and Bo Chronicles (Book Two)
website
Blog
Goodreads
The lady herself
See ya next time.
Thank you so much for sharing my important story. I mean, this is a deadly matter. You are so lovely to share! The page looks fab!
ReplyDeleteYou are most welcome. Thanks for supplying the story!
DeleteWow, Brenda. Thanks for sharing your story with us. It's so important to be aware of what is going on with our bodies.
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